Thursday, November 28, 2013
Our holiday promises to be a quiet one this year. Her Majesty and I are celebrating with immediate family and enjoying a long weekend with our son who is home from college. There will be little kinky activity going on for the next few days but the loving bond we share and my commitment to serving my Queen will remain an ongoing theme tying the myriad aspects of our lives together. I am extraordinarily blessed in so many ways and I am extremely grateful for all of them. Most of all I am grateful to belong to Her Majesty.
Happy Thanksgiving to everyone who reads this blog and to my submissive brethren everywhere! It's better to count our blessings than to hunger for the things that are denied us. IMHO anyway....
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Latin Beauties In High Heels
Sunday, November 17, 2013
Oh what a beautiful morning! My butt cheeks are still painful to touch and the flesh feels hard in places. Bright red stripes still decorate my lily white bum. Her Majesty asked to see it this morning. When I pulled down my pants she exclaimed;
“Wow! It’s still pretty red! Are you happy this morning?”
“Oh yes Ma’am! Absolutely ecstatic!”, I replied.
“Good. Go downstairs and boil me an egg.”
Last night Her Majesty gave me the most severe whipping I have received in a very long time. Far from being a punishment is was a reward for being a good obedient slave and for being patient. After a delicious Thai dinner I brought down her exquisite Italian leather boots, a short thick single tail, a vibrating dildo, rubber gloves and lube. You can never have too much lube.
When Her Majesty saw the whip I had chosen she exclaimed gleefully; “Oh! You chose that one? This can really do some damage!” From Her lips to God’s ears!
The boots I brought her were not stilettos but have thick sensible heels. They are classic, opulent boots made in Italy and they were very expensive. I bought them for her last Christmas and the delicious smell of butter soft high quality leather is still strong almost a year later. After putting them on her feet I worshiped for a very long time.
The whipping started out very slow. Her Majesty is such a tease. She built the intensity while I groveled on the floor worshiping her beautiful boots. Finally I started to become accustomed to Her savage whip and positioned myself on the floor to give Her the best access possible. It was truly punishing. My thrashing went on for a very long time. I have no idea how many strokes I took. Her Majesty only stopped because her arm was starting to hurt. By then my buttocks were deep crimson, incredibly sore and I was deep in subspace.
When she finally slid the dildo all the way inside me I screamed. It should always hurt a little. By the end I was thanking her profusely and begging her to fuck me harder.*Sigh!* After she was finished sodomizing me I removed her boots only to find the delicious smell of leather now permeated Her royal feet. She laughed when I started going crazy kissing her feet and toes.
“Do they smell like leather?” She asked teasingly.
“Yes Ma’am! They certainly do!” I replied. We both laughed.
I am incredibly happy this morning. I feel at peace with myself and at one with the universe. There is nothing like complete surrender to free my soul. All is right with the world.
* Published with the approval of Her Imperial Majesty The Queen
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Saturday, November 16, 2013
“The Posh Girl's Guide to Play: Fantasy, Role Play & Sensual Bondage” is written by Alexis Lass, a privileged young woman who attended exclusive private schools with the likes of Gwyneth Paltrow and Kerry Washington. Ms. Lass spent a few years in the scene working as a professional dominatrix after which she became a successful producer of femdom erotica. Formerly a struggling actress, Ms. Lass shares excitedly about the A-Listers and “Masters Of The Universe” she met at scene parties in New York City. Like many current authors exploring BDSM themes she is riding the wave of popularity engendered by the “Fifty Shades of Grey” trilogy, which she refers to simply as; “the book”.
“The Guide” refers to the author’s brief career as a prodomme obliquely though it does go into some depth when discussing her experiences as a lifestyle player. Mostly the book is intended to help the liberated, emancipated woman of today make peace with her inner femsub and give her tips on how to seduce a “nice guy” into dominating her.
The overall mood of "The Guide" is fun open light and current. Happily the book is kink positive, at least to a point. Ms. Lass makes it clear she personally avoids the more extreme forms of SM play preferring to keep her kinky explorations mild with a little sting. She hints at a darkness underlying BDSM, warns aspiring subs about getting in too deep and abandons the acronym "BDSM" in favor of "DSRP" which stands for "dominant submissive role play".
Ms. Lass describes “play” as therapeutic, transformative, romantic and good for relationships as long as things are kept in the proper balance; a point of view I happen to agree with. She clearly states that neither party in the arrangement should become fixated or obsessed with the roles they briefly inhabit during playtime. Role play is approached as an illusion with therapeutic benefits. Domination is portrayed as little more than acting. Ms. Lass is of the opinion that 24/7 DSRP relationships should be approached with extreme caution or not at all.
“Topping from the bottom”, usually depicted as onerous when practiced by submissive men, is strongly advocated for kinky young ladies in "The Guide”. Ms. Lass promotes the idea that by seducing her partner into dominance she is the one actively taking the dominant role. For me the water gets a bit murky here. In my humble opinion if you enjoy being tied up and spanked you are essentially a sub no matter how manipulative you are about getting what you want. Given the stigma usually attached to males topping from the bottom I found the implied double standard somewhat irksome but perhaps the author is advocating topping from the bottom for men too. She is not clear on that point and in fact seems reticent to discuss the dynamics of femdom DSRP relationships in her book.
Ms. Lass asserts that her efforts to bring female submission into the bedroom are empowering to women and not anti-feminist. Shout outs to “bra burning mamas” notwithstanding, the author’s point of view concerning male female relationships turns out to be surprisingly normal and non threatening to the entrenched patriarchy. No wonder “The Guide” and it's author have been positively portrayed in conservative publications like the New York Post.
I am still waiting to read a book on female domination written by a professional dominatrix (practicing or retired) who identifies positively as a dominant woman, enjoys playing with submissive men and has relevant insights to share on the subject. Whatever else can be said about “The Guide” it is not that book. Then again I was probably not the target audience. If you are a woman with secret kinky desires or a man who wants to know what makes a kinky posh girl tick, reading "The Guide" could prove worthwhile.
Illustrations by Sardax
Bottom photo of Alexis Lass a.k.a. Domme Dietrich
Bottom photo of Alexis Lass a.k.a. Domme Dietrich
Saturday, November 2, 2013
I saw an interesting article in the N.Y. Times today titled Stilettos Are Power! It is certainly true that as a shoe fetishist my eye is instantly drawn to a sexy pair of stiletto heels. A woman who wears them will almost certainly have power over me! But I do understand that they are not the world's most comfortable footwear.
Her Majesty likes to be a bare foot girl these days whenever possible. She used to wear stilettos in her younger days though. I will never forget the first time I took her shoe shopping to buy a pair of shiny black leather stiletto pumps. I was so incredibly nervous and turned on! She certainly knew it was a powerful moment for me and I think the sales woman might have also judging from her smile. Since then I have purchased Her Majesty more pairs of high heels than she can fit in her closet.
I always love boot season but I can't help noticing that most of the ladies I see wearing boots this fall are sporting the flat variety. Don't get me wrong. Riding boots and other low heeled boots can be very nice. But the number of stiletto heeled boots I see out there has dropped dramatically. More's the pity for my fetishist's eye but I get it. I think as women become more dominant in their every day lives they are deciding to wear more comfortable footwear. After all it must be hard to take charge of situations when your feet are in agony.
In your opinion do stilettos add to a woman's power, diminish it or neither? Are stilettos just a left over symbol of the dying male patriarchy? Do stilettos whisper "I'm a sexy powerful dominant woman" or bleat "I'm a sex object willing to suffer intense foot pain to attract male attention?" Stilettos can be sexy whether on the foot of a dominant or a submissive woman. But I admit they are neither comfortable nor practical. Nevertheless I doubt I will ever lose my penchant for a sexy pair of stiletto heels.
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Aron's Pantyhose Fetish
Sunday, October 27, 2013
Saturday, October 26, 2013
As a child my interest in horror movies and comic books came together when Warren Publishing released Creepy and Eerie magazines. The stories were somewhat naive; derivative of classic horror films like Frankenstein, Dracula and Wolfman. Although tame by today's standards the censors were concerned these publications might prove too strong for young impressionable minds. In order to get around the Comic Code Authority Warren maintained their publications were magazines not comic books. They published Creepy and Eerie in black and white, designed them in a larger format, increased their price point and displayed them on magazine stands instead of comic book racks.
Fast forward to 1969 and Warren Publishing was on the decline. The magazines started to rely heavily on reprints as artists and writers departed for greener pastures. Warren moved from Philadelphia to New York leaving it strapped for cash. The company needed fresh blood. Thus was born the dark vampiric goddess and gorgeous alien from another planet; Vampirella!
While Uncle Creepy and Cousin Eerie just made sophomoric puns, Vampirella was an iconic heroine strong enough to be the central character in an ongoing saga. The early Vampirella stories were extremely campy along the lines of the 1960s film Barbarella. Once Archie Goodwin started writing and Jose "Pepe" Gonzalez started illustrating Vampirella magazine really found its stride. Every issue began with a story featuring Vampirella then branched off into other science fiction/fantasy tales reminiscent of Twilight Zone or the The Outer Limits.
Vampirella magazine reflected the mood of the late sixties/early seventies. The artwork was excellent and often risque reflecting the sexual revolution which was now in full swing. Female characters were often depicted as strong and in charge even if scantily clad. While the target audience for Creepy and Eerie were pre-teen boys Vampirella’s target audience seemed a little older and more sophisticated.
There is no doubt that Vampirella influenced my budding sexuality. With her long black hair, beautiful face, killer body and classic knee high black leather boots she embodies my “dream domina”. I adored her as a boy and I adore her still. Vampirella is (literally) to die for! Bite me Vampi! Please?
Of course there are no such thing as vampires. Are there? Hi ladies. When I said I fantasized about having a threesome I didn’t mean... Oh my! What long pointy teeth you have! Ouch! Ladies?
Some of the artwork in Creepy and Eerie was astoundingly good. I was especially fond of the artist Frank Frazetta who painted many classic Creepy and Eerie magazine covers along with book covers for Conan The Barbarian.
Jose "Pepe" Gonzalez
Saturday, October 19, 2013
Yesterday I received my copy of "Venus In Furs" translated and illustrated by Sardax. I can happily report that Sardax has done an amazing job illustrating this immortal classic. In addition to full page illustrations his artwork decorates the borders of many pages. The book features several illustrations I had never seen before. As always Sardax's artwork is exquisite, evocative and tasteful.
"Venus In Furs" would make a wonderful gift for a lady interested in female dominance. In fact as we enter the holiday season this book might make an excellent Christmas gift for a man wishing to interest his lady love in dominating him. I was delighted with Her Majesty's reaction when she asked to see it. She agreed that the illustrations were very beautiful. I daresay Sardax has a new fan. She eagerly thumbed through the book oohing when she found an illustration that particularly caught her fancy and laughing when she found one she knew would catch mine. There was one border illustration featuring Wanda's leg with her foot pressed against Severin's mustached lips that she particularly enjoyed.
"I want one of those!", she said at one point while browsing through Venus.
"You want a mink stole?" I replied.
"No I want that beautiful circular tub!" (*The tub featured in the top most illustration).
At this I laughed. "Would you like another cup of coffee Ma'am?" I asked her.
"Yes and make me some toast too please", she replied.
"Do we have any bread?"
"We have rolls."
"I can't put rolls in the toaster can I?"
"Yes you can. Just press them flat like I flatten your balls."
God I love that woman!
Illustrations by Sardax